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“Why can’t I try on different lives, like dresses, to see which one fits best?”
—Sylvia Plath

nakirambleszes:

tedx:

Watch the whole talk here»

John Dehlin is a practicing Mormon … and an outspoken activist for LGBTQ rights. In this touching talk at TEDxUSU, John shares how a friendship with an openly gay coworker changed his views on homosexuality and led him to a career in psychology.

In his research, John looks at the complex, often-prickly relationship between religion and sexuality. Here, he shares some of his findings — heartbreaking statistics about how negative feelings toward sexuality and attempts to “fix” same-sex attraction inspire suicides and teen homelessness.

I love that last line.


Anonim asked:
"What is 50 shades of grey about? And what's so bad about it?"

aconissa:

50 Shades of Grey was originally fanfiction based on the Twilight series, which was then published as a novel (along with 2 subsequent books). It sold over 100 million copies around the world and topped best-seller lists everywhere. It’s about to be adapted into a film, set to come out early next year.

It follows a college student named Ana Steele, who enters a relationship with a man named Christian Grey and is then introduced to a bastardised and abusive parody of BDSM culture.

While the book is paraded as erotica, the relationship between Ana and Christian is far from healthy. The core mantra of the BDSM community is “safe, sane and consensual”, and 50 Shades is anything but. None of the rules of BDSM practices (which are put in place to protect those involved) are actually upheld. Christian is controlling, manipulative, abusive, takes complete advantage of Ana, ignores safe-words, ignores consent, keeps her uneducated about the sexual practices they’re taking part in, and a multitude of other terrible things. Their relationship is completely sickening and unhealthy.

Basically, “the book is a glaring glamorisation of violence against women,” as Amy Bonomi so perfectly put it. 

It’s terrible enough that a book like this has been absorbed by people worldwide. Now, we have a film that is expected to be a huge box-office success, and will likely convince countless more young women that it’s okay not to have any autonomy in a relationship, that a man is allowed to control them entirely. It will also show many young men that women are theirs to play with and dominate, thus contributing to antiquated patriarchal values and rape culture.


vaderblues:

star wars scenes: [4/x] Episode III: Revenge of the Sith » Funeral for a Queen


(Kaynak: iamnevertheone)


the first three words you see are what you want most in life right now

dylanobroden:

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Richard Ayoade on 50 Shades of Grey trailer

Stop Chris Pratt before it’s too late 2k14

(Kaynak: calvinjcandie)


theirrelevantlyimportant:

"Badly done, Emma." 

Emma and Mr.Knightley. 


anthonyedwardstarks:

Author Chuck Palahniuk first came up with the idea for the novel after being beaten up on a camping trip when he complained to some nearby campers about the noise of their radio. When he returned to work, he was fascinated to find that nobody would mention or acknowledge his injuries, instead saying such commonplace things as “How was your weekend?” Palahniuk concluded that the reason people reacted this way was because if they asked him what had happened, a degree of personal interaction would be necessary, and his workmates simply didn’t care enough to connect with him on a personal level. It was his fascination with this societal ‘blocking’ which became the foundation for the novel. 


tinderbox210:

txwatson:

itswalky:

Community has claimed the real estate just outside all the bathrooms apparently.

*dean voice* On your way to the toilet? Congratulations! Technically, you’ve just enrolled in Greendale Community College! Tuition is 300 dollars, you can just stuff the cash or check into the hand dryer. Don’t worry — it’s already broken.

tinderbox210:

txwatson:

itswalky:

Community has claimed the real estate just outside all the bathrooms apparently.

*dean voice* On your way to the toilet? Congratulations! Technically, you’ve just enrolled in Greendale Community College! Tuition is 300 dollars, you can just stuff the cash or check into the hand dryer. Don’t worry — it’s already broken.


(Kaynak: bambithepenguin)


lucylivesherlife:

(the most important bits of the episode)